“The hopes of the godly result in happiness, but the expectations of the wicked come to nothing.” (Proverbs 10:28 NLT)
Happiness, according to The Merriam-Webster Dictionary, is defined as “a state of well-being and contentment; a pleasurable satisfaction.” It’s interesting to me that the word in the verse above that is translated “expectations“ means: “the thing that I long for.” Many today are selling their soul for what they believe will satisfy their longings, only to be disappointed. How do I know that?
Two ways. First, because that’s what God’s Word says: “the expectations of the wicked come to nothing.” And second, because ultimately the only thing that offers lasting satisfaction, thus happiness, is Jesus. C.S. Lewis wrote: “Do not let your happiness depend on something you may lose.”
A good rule of thumb is: “If you can see it with your physical eyes, you’re going to lose it.” It’s going to wear out, burn out, rust out, or die. Earthly things are all temporary. But that’s not to say that we can’t and/or won’t enjoy or be happy about the good things God provides us while we’re here.
Every day I thank the Lord for my family, friends, and brothers and sisters in Christ I’ve met across the years. I’m grateful for friendships with men and women whom I’ve met that have for me embodied the Spirit and life of my Savior. I’ve been able to see Jesus more clearly for having spent time in their presence.
The hope of heaven, to finally see Jesus’ face, and to be reunited with family and dear friends who have loved Jesus and have preceded me in death, is the longing of my heart in this season of my life. Solomon wrote: “The hopes of the godly result in happiness…” In my mind hope isn’t simply something for which we long, it’s a present reality affirmed in and through our relationship with Jesus.
For me, He isn’t just a “coming King,” He’s my constant companion and guide in this life. His presence is as real to me today as the voice of my dear wife calling me to dinner. Material things are a blessing to me that make my life so much easier, but if a tornado swept my every earthly possession away, I’d still be happy in Jesus, knowing that everything I have or will ever need is derived from my walk with Him.
He’s my Provider. He may use the government or other sources to provide the money I need to live, but ultimately, it’s from Him. Foundationally, Jesus is the basis of my happiness. How about you? What’s the basis of your happiness? On what are you casting your longings to meet the need of your heart and life?
Are you bitter from the loss of someone or some thing you were counting on to meet your happiness quota? Was your life drastically challenged by a physical illness or injury, so much so you’re concerned that life will never be the same for you?
When I was new to ministry, I visited a young man in the hospital who had been shot in the face. Having very little experience with hospital visits, I asked him how he was doing. He said: “I’ve been shot in the face; how do think I’m doing?” I didn’t know how to respond then, but if I had that visit to do over, I’d say something like: “I’d think you’d be grateful you’re alive. If the bullet had been an inch or so in another direction, we wouldn’t be having this conversation.” This life is so fragile.
We have no assurance of the next breath, but it’s like we think God owes us an explanation for everything that happens in our life. If our “happiness cart” is upset, or our “world” is affected by something that changes our routine, we’re livid. Why can’t we see the disruptions to our schedules as an opportunity to see the Lord and our lives from a healthier perspective? We’d sure be a lot happier if we did.
Food for thought.
Blessings, Ed 😊
Walking With Jesus 