A Closer Look at Joy

“The Kingdom of Heaven is like a treasure that a man discovered hidden in a field. In his excitement, he hid it again and sold everything he owned to get enough money to buy the field.” (Matthew 13:44 NLT)

Have you ever wanted something really badly? How did you feel when you got it? Mixed emotions?

When Paul listed the “fruit of the Spirit,” on some levels, these are unique gifts, and our responses to what God is developing in us over time is varied. Yes, the Spirit fills us, and we get all of Jesus when we repent and yield our life and allegiance to Him. But I believe it’s safe to say, He doesn’t get all of us.

Some of the “fruit” ripens more quickly, while others take time. Joy is used about 60 times in the New Testament and many times refers to gladness brought about by something God has done or is doing – like when John the Baptist, while still in his mother’s womb, jumped for joy when he heard Mary’s voice. Or the shepherds response when the angel brought them news of Jesus’ birth.

It speaks of uncontainable enthusiasm. Like how fans respond to their favorite team scoring the winning point in the last second of the game. It’s more than happiness, it’s an exuberance that resurfaces every time you bring it to remembrance.

That’s what Jesus was addressing in the parable above. The unbridled excitement when the man, after selling everything he owned to get enough to buy the field, finally hears the words – “it’s yours!” Others don’t understand. Why would someone be so giddy about buying a field? They don’t know about the treasure!

It’s like that with us. We hear about Jesus, and it piques our interest. So, we investigate further and discover that He is the Treasure we’ve been searching for all our lives. So, we “sell” everything that once held value. Family members and friends think we’re nuts. “It won’t last!” they say. Or “They’ll get over it!” But we can’t.

It’s like Paul in Philippians 3:7 when he wrote: “I once thought these things were valuable, but now I consider them worthless because of what Christ has done.”

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Joy, in the context of who Jesus is and what He’s done for us, is more than an emotion, it’s a mindset. It’s an attitude of gratitude to which we can never give full expression. The closest thing to which I can liken it is the birth of your first child. How can you adequately give thanks for such a treasure?

It’s delight that deepens and grows over time. It’s what Peter was trying to express when he wrote in 1 Peter 1:8: “You love Him even though you have never seen Him. Though you do not see Him now, you trust Him; and you rejoice with a glorious, inexpressible joy. The reward for trusting Him will be the salvation of your souls.”

We went around our circle of volunteers at church answering the question, “For what are you most grateful this morning?” An elderly man with a quivering lip said: “I asked the Lord to heal my 50 year old son’s cancer, and He did!”

That deep sense of gratitude that moves us to the core of our being; that draws from us an appreciation that words cannot adequately express; that sense of awe that fills our hearts and minds when we think about what it will be like to worship at the feet of our Savior in heaven – these are how I think of the joy I have in knowing, loving, and serving my Savior.

Blessings, Ed 😊

A Closer Look at Love

“Jesus replied, ‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.’” (Matthew 22: 37-40 NLT)

Is it safe to say that our understanding and concept of love is far different than God’s? How can we even begin to understand a love that offers His only Son to bridge the gap between sinful human beings and Himself? How can we possibly conceive of a love that not only doesn’t demand His own way, but ignores His own way in favor of the way of His Father?

We whine about someone parking in “our” parking spot or sitting in “our” seat at church or feel obligated to contact the church office because someone wasn’t dressed very nicely, and they smelled. We love the stories the missionaries tell of the impoverished people whose lives were positively impacted by our churches giving, but we’re often too busy to volunteer to serve the impoverished in our own city.

Sometimes I literally cry because of the hardness of my heart in comparison to the picture of Jesus’ life painted for us in Scripture. His love knew no bounds. When someone needed Him, He responded.

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Have you ever wondered why so few miracles occur today in America compared to all the miracles that were done in the New Testament, not only by Jesus, but by His followers? Even in other parts of the world today, it’s much more common to see and hear of God’s power being manifested in miraculous ways.

God’s love hasn’t changed. His healing virtue is just as real today as it’s ever been. His availability to touch and change lives hasn’t been altered. So, what’s changed? And I’m not referring to our dark, lost world, I’m talking about me! A professing believer who too often loves myself more than I love God or others. I attend and give and serve and worship and cry and pray – but my love too often is an inch deep and a mile wide.

There’s a man in my Men’s Group who volunteers in the church office every week. He inputs information for the many new people the Lord is sending us and makes calls to follow up with them. He volunteers on Sunday to serve and is often involved in other ways throughout the week. He’s a busy man. Yet, he takes his valuable time each day to put these blog articles on his Facebook page, to give them more exposure. I didn’t ask him to do that. He does it because he loves Jesus and me.

He’s an exception, but what if he wasn’t? What can we learn from someone who puts Jesus and others ahead of himself? What if we started with sacrificing one hour a week to “fast” from catering to our every need? What might it look like if, for no other reason than love for Jesus and others, we sought to serve the needs of someone else?

There’s a young man I met through our church who has since moved out of state, but he texts me every morning to remind me that he’s praying for me and my family. Why would he do that? Because he loves Jesus and others more than he loves himself.

Change doesn’t happen overnight, but what if we purposed in our heart to put Jesus and others ahead of ourselves in some practical way for the express reason of honoring Jesus and denying ourselves? Let it begin with prayer, then allow the Lord to give you ideas that can work for you.

Each of us, regardless of who we are, can do something. Lift someone to God in prayer; send a text, email, or make a call; take someone to breakfast or invite them over to your house; let someone know you’re praying for them and ask if they have any specific requests; pay a teen’s way to a youth camp; whatever it is, let it be a sacrifice. Let God’s love lead the way. He will be honored, and you will be blessed.

Blessings, Ed 😊

What Is the Fruit of the Spirit?

“Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.” (Psalm 139:23-24 NLT)

In the above Psalm, David outlined a strategy for spiritual growth that is too often overlooked in our fast-paced culture. And please don’t misunderstand, this isn’t self-examination, that of which he speaks is God-examination. But if we’re not careful, we’ll not take the time to listen to what the Lord says to us.

This is not something we can crowd into our normal 10-15 minute “quiet time.” This is a half-day to a week-long journey with God, seeking through prayer and studying God’s Word; listening carefully to what the Spirit is saying. On some levels it’s a life-long journey.

As with any journey you need a map or guide. The Lord is showing me that the fruit of the Spirit can serve as a floodlight to our soul. Notice the Bible says “fruit,” not fruits. The same “plant” or person bears all this fruit as we grow in our knowledge of and devotion to Jesus.

Over the next few days, I’d like to let each aspect of the Holy Spirit’s fruit shine its light on our hearts and help us see more clearly our “anxious thoughts,” or anything else that might be offensive to the Lord. As Jesus followers, our goal and desire is to grow in ever increasing measure into the likeness of our Savior.

Before we go to the specific elements of the fruit of the Spirit, I strongly encourage you to read all of Galatians chapter 5 to get a sense of the contrast that Paul is painting between being led by our sinful nature and being led by God’s Holy Spirit. To profess to know and love Jesus and continue to follow the dictates of our sinful nature is a contradiction.

So, let’s turn to Galatians 5:22 to see the fruit of the Spirit of which Paul speaks. ”But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things.!”

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Let’s begin with “love.” There are those, and I may be one of them, that believe love is the fruit, and each of the others are manifestations of love, but for our purposes, we’re just going to cover each of them separately. My prayer is that by doing it this way it will give us an opportunity to see where we’re doing well and where we’re not, so we know what to work on.

The word Paul uses for “love” is agape, which is used exclusively in the New Testament “to express that spiritual bond of love between God and man and between man and man, in Christ which is characteristic of Christianity.” (Strong’s) Unlike in the English language where we have only one word to describe many things we love, in the Greek language there are four distinct words used to describe different aspects of what we would think of as love.

Paul elaborates on what this word means in 1 Corinthians 13, where you’ll find some of the other words used in his list of the fruit of the Spirit in Galatians.

Love is who God is, not what He does. He cannot, NOT love, it would violate His divine nature. So it just seems natural that anyone who professes to be God’s follower would exhibit this vital characteristic in their life. So, let’s break it down and look at some practical applications of what love looks like.

In 1 Corinthians 13:4 Paul writes: “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude.” How are you doing so far? 😊 He continues: “It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

We’ll dig in a little deeper in tomorrow’s post.

Blessings, Ed 😊

When Prayer is Hard

“What more can I say to You? You know what your servant is really like, Sovereign Lord.” (2 Samuel 7:20 NLT)

Has the fact of who you are ever stood in the way of your prayers? It certainly has for me. The realization that no one knows me better than God; to seek to reconcile all that I’ve done to break God’s heart; to try to come to terms with the person I once was in light of the beauty and majesty of my Savior is more than I can comprehend.

It’s as if Satan is attempting to hold a mirror between me and God and all I can see is a reflection of my inadequacy and failure. In those moments it’s very hard to look up. It’s impossible for me to pretend I deserve to speak to the King of kings and Lord of lords. I can’t deny what I’ve been, and, in a very real sense, what I still am.

The bottom line for me and, unfortunately, for you, is that “no one is righteous, not even one” (Romans 3:10). None of us deserves to be a child of God. That’s one of the beautiful things about prayer. It’s said that when John F. Kennedy was President, he would allow his young son to play in his office in the White House. The privilege wasn’t given because of who the little boy was, but for who his father was.

It’s no different for us. We’re given access to the throne room of God, not because of who we are, but because of who our Father is. When we place our full trust in Jesus as Savior and Lord of our lives, He opens the pathway for us to have conversation with God. That’s why, when the Disciples asked Jesus to teach them to pray, Jesus told them to begin their prayers with: “Our Father…”

So, when prayer is hard for me, when I’m feeling undeserving and at a loss for words, I focus my attention, not on me, but on my heavenly Father. Like David, after his sin with Bathsheba, in Psalm 51:1 he says: “Have mercy on me, O God, because of Your great compassion…” Focusing on praise, adoration, and thanksgiving helps to realign my heart and keep my thoughts on God and not on myself.

The Psalms are filled with pictures of reasons to praise and honor God. His creation, the literal landscape of God’s heavens and earth – the trees, flowers, stars, clouds, mountains, oceans, forests, valleys – every detail of God’s creation is cause for awe and wonder. Have you ever noticed the intricacies of a gnat? Almost microscopic, but created with such delicate detail.

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What do you have to praise the Lord about today? When it’s hard for me to pray, I begin with praise and expressions of gratitude. I love the beauty of the morning sun, the creativity of cloud formations, the uniqueness of trees and flowers. It’s interesting, and praiseworthy when I see the differences in my neighbors from various cultures. How they give expression to their customs, as well as the curious ways they speak.

That’s not to mention the deep gratitude I have for my wife, children, grandchild, and the many people whom God has engineered circumstances in my life for me to meet. The primary focus of my prayers in this season of my life is the Lord first, then people – family, friends, loved ones, neighbors, brothers and sisters in Christ, locally and worldwide, and those who are lost, without a saving knowledge of Jesus.

The Lord gave me this thought this morning: “The heart of prayer isn’t how much we get from God, it’s how much of God we get from prayer.” At the end of the day, if we’re not learning more about the Lord and growing closer to Him through prayer, we may need to rethink our motive and/or methodology.

Blessings, Ed 😊

Must Believers Sin?

“So the trouble is not with the law, for it is spiritual and good. The trouble is with me, for I am all too human, a slave to sin.” (Romans 7:14 NLT)

In a recent conversation with a man whom I believe is a man of God, a man who has walked with Jesus for many years, he made a statement in a “matter of fact” way. He said: “I sin more or less every day.” So, my question to him was “why?”

We discussed the subject, but his “go-to” passage was in Romans 7, specifically the verse above where Paul says he is “a slave to sin.” The fact of the matter is, we were all slaves to sin before we came to Jesus, but to pull a verse out of context and use it as a proof text is not only dangerous, but it can also be very misleading.

The fact remains, if you want to stay true to Scripture, you can’t interpret one passage without understanding it in light of surrounding passages, and, ultimately, in light of the whole of Scripture. The Bible does not contradict itself, yet, if you take a verse like the one above without understanding it’s context, it seems to contradict other passages.

For example, in chapter 6:1-2 Paul wrote: “Well then, should we keep on sinning so that God can show us more and more of His wonderful grace? Of course not! Since we have died to sin, how can we continue to live in it?” So, is Paul speaking out of both sides of his mouth? Is he saying we die to sin, but still live in it?

No, he isn’t. He’s essentially saying that the role the law plays in our life is to reveal that we are sinners who have no hope of ever keeping the law, thus hopeless to ever be good enough to save ourselves and be in a right relationship with God. God judges us based on the law; therefore, we have only two choices. Try to keep the law ourselves, which is humanly impossible, or trust what Jesus accomplished on the Cross when He died to pay the penalty for our sin, reflected in our inability to keep the law of God.

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The law demands perfect obedience or death. Since no one but Jesus was able to keep the law, He alone was able to pay the sin debt we owed. So, we have only one of two choices: trust our own goodness, which is futile, or trust the sacrifice that Jesus made in our place. That, to me, is a no-brainer.

But the plot thickens because we maintain a measure of allegiance to our Adamic-sin nature for as long as we walk in this body of clay. The blood of Jesus cleanses us from all our sin the moment we yield our life and allegiance to Him, but He doesn’t free us from future sin or take away our ability to still sin.

Yes, of course, Jesus’ death made appropriation for every sin we’d ever commit, but I believe it’s a violation of Scripture to tell someone that every sin they ever will commit is already forgiven. Appropriation for forgiveness, yes, already forgiven, no.

If that was the case, why would John write in 1 John 2:1: “My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if (not when) anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father.”

There’s a lot more that could be said, but suffice it to say, NO, a believer has no obligation to sin. Sin is a choice we make, and when we’re compelled by the Holy Spirit to walk faithfully with the Lord, our goal and desire is to walk in a manner that honors the Lord, not dishonor Him.

Blessings, Ed 😊

Learning to Pray by Heart

“One day some parents brought their children to Jesus so He could lay His hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples scolded the parents for bothering Him.” (Matthew 19:13 NLT)

When my daughter was about four, I was watching something on TV when I heard this little voice: “Daddy.” Being the spiritual giant that I was, I ignored it for a while, but it persisted. I told her to go to sleep, but it persisted. Of course, I have no remembrance of what was on TV, but I do remember that, in exasperation I ran up the stairs to her room, and in a not too kind voice I said to her: “What do you need?” To which she responded in her little angelic voice: “When you’re here daddy, I don’t need nothin’.” Heart check!

What I would give to have those moments back. I often tell parents of young children that in the season they’re in the days are long, but the years are short, treasure them. I missed so many opportunities because of my busyness/laziness, yet, if I’m not very careful, I do a similar thing with the Lord now.

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Remember how proud you were when you finally managed to recite the Lord’s Prayer by heart? Sometimes in our haste, wanting to be “spiritually correct,” and “say our prayers,” we forget the heart of the matter is Jesus. How I viewed my daughter when she was small is much the same as how Jesus views us now, in a spiritual sense.

In my better moments, my heart longs just to be with my Father. And I say, in my spirit, “Father, when You are here, I don’t need nothin’.” The reality, of course, is that He NEVER leaves us. He’s ALWAYS with us. But in our haste to check off all the boxes on our “to do” list, we miss the only One whose attention we really need.

Prayer can become a chore we perform from memory so we can tell our friends how faithful we are to “pray” every day for “X” number of minutes, but what we too often end up doing is saying the same prayer every day without giving a lot of thought to who’s listening. “Prayer” becomes a substitute for genuine conversation with our Father, but the tragedy is, we often don’t even realize it.

Our burdens become unbearable because, while we understand intellectually that God cares, understands, and can help, we often don’t remember to move our concerns from our head to our heart and speak with our heavenly Father about them.

Corrie Ten Boom wrote: “Any concern too small to be turned into prayer is too small to be made into a burden.”

I love that Jesus allowed the parents to bring their children to Him, because the truth is, in a very real sense, we are those children. I’m so grateful the Lord places His loving hand on our heads and He continues to pray for us.

My desire is to learn afresh each day what a gift prayer is, so that I don’t have to ever be saddened by my lack of fruitful time spent with my Father. I want Him to teach me things He wants me to learn, not so I can recite them back to Him from memory, but that my gratitude and appreciation will overflow directly from my heart as I share my love for Him. I’m so glad I’m never a bother to my heavenly Father. Aren’t you?

Blessings, Ed 😊

Are You a Guy or a Man?

“The disciples were amazed. ‘Who is this man?’ they asked. ‘Even the winds and waves obey Him!’” (Matthew 8:27 NLT)

When you’re with a group of men you might see, hear, or smell any number of things, but if you asked why, the common response is: “It’s just a guy thing!” And that’s true even if it’s a Christian group of men. The basic premise behind the acceptance of uncouth behavior among men is that they’re just being “men.” But are they?

The setting for the above verse is, Jesus has been resting from a physically tiring day of ministry, but while He slept a fierce storm arose and the water was coming into the boat in an alarming rate. The disciples literally were fearing for their lives.

I’m confident they tried everything they knew to do to remedy the situation, but to no avail. Finally, in literal desperation, they awakened Jesus and, to be heard above the noise of the storm, they were shouting at the top of their lungs: “Lord, save us! We’re going to drown!”

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Have you ever been awakened from a deep sleep? You may have been in the midst of a dream, so to be suddenly awakened is somewhat disorienting. I’m not suggesting Jesus wasn’t in full command of His senses, but listen to what He said first: “Why are you afraid? You have so little faith!”

Of course, the storm is still raging, so Jesus would have had to speak loudly also. What’s my point? The disciples’ first response to the storm is fear. Jesus’ first thought was faith. What’s the implication? It’s as if Jesus is saying: “What do you have to be afraid of, I’m with you!” Then, as a means of illustrating His point, He rebuked the wind and waves, and there was peace and calm.

It was then the disciples asked the question at the top of the page. So, what does all of this have to do with whether you’re a guy or a man?

Being a guy is fun. You can be “yourself.” Laid back, unguarded as to your behavior, after all, “I’m just a guy.” Belch, pass gas, have a hot dog eating contest, who cares, it’s just a “guy” thing. Depending on the nature of the crowd of men, it can involve drinking, drugs, illicit sex, even the taking of another person’s life. Where am I going with this?

Being a “guy” essentially means to give liberty to your basest self. It’s a “no discipline, no rules, and no holds barred” kind of attitude, quite unlike the behavior of our Savior. But don’t misunderstand. I believe Jesus had a great sense of humor. I suspect He played tricks on His disciples, laughed, and had a good time with them, and there’s certainly a place for that for us.

But when it comes to our faith in Jesus, we’ve got to allow Him to lead, discipline, and instruct us. We must learn to become a man, a man of God, not simply a guy among guys.

Burk Parsons wrote: “It’s easy to be a guy, but it takes courage, integrity, character, honor, strength, discipline, and humility to be a man.” Guys joke and cut up, and that’s okay, but there comes a time when we’ve got to set our rowdiness aside and discipline ourselves to intentionally grow in our likeness of Jesus.

Real men love Jesus and, thus, love and are faithful to their wives, treat their children with tenderness and kindness, and walk in a way that deserves to be followed. Jesus was a Man among men who not only taught us, but showed us with His life, what it means to be a man. Let’s follow Him as closely as we possibly can – TOGETHER!

Blessings, Ed 😊

What Is the Age of Accountability?

“Then He said, ‘I tell you the truth, unless you turn from your sins and become like little children, you will never get into the Kingdom of Heaven.” (Matthew 18:3 NLT)

Because responding to Jesus’ invitation to follow Him is generally believed to be an adult decision, the issue then becomes, what happens to a child who dies before they’re mature enough to make that decision? Thus, the issue of the age of accountability.

Since I mentioned the age of accountability in yesterday’s post, I decided to address it today. Depending on your frame of reference, you may never have heard this expression, so let me seek to give explanation as to what it means and why I believe it’s true, even though it’s not specifically mentioned in the Bible.

There are, of course, other categories of people to consider in this teaching. For example, a person who, for reason of mental or emotional or even physical imbalance or instability, is unable to understand what it means to yield their life and allegiance to Jesus. These kinds of issues have to be entrusted to the Lord’s wisdom, for as much as we’d like to think we know who can be held accountable for their decisions and who cannot, ultimately, it’s the Lord’s call.

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Personally, when I think of the “age of accountability,” I think most often of children. Jesus loved children and used them as examples of what we, as adults, should act and look like as His followers. How so?

What are some child-like characteristics that we ought to emulate in our lives as believers? And even as I contemplate what to write, I realize that some children mature at a much faster pace than others. Also, as a rule of thumb, girls mature faster than boys. My 12 year-old son was going on 6, when my 12 year-old daughter was going on 20. 😊

Consider these general characteristics of young children: humility, vulnerability, sensitivity, submission to authority, gentleness, kindness, tenderness, love, and meekness. You may think of others, but those are the ones that come to mind first for me.

Think, too, of the fruit of the Spirit, love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Many of these are evident in a child’s life and, if that child comes to the Lord at a young age, can be nurtured and developed much more easily than in an adult.

A rule of thumb I’ve used as a parent and pastor is Baptism. In the Bible, responding to Jesus’ invitation to life and the investment of our lives in His Kingdom, is an adult decision. Infant baptism is not found or taught in Scripture.

When I was a pastor, when a child desired to be baptized, I often had to discern between whose decision it was, the parent or the child? My daughter was about 7 when she expressed interest in receiving the Lord and following Him in water baptism. My son and stepson were a little older, but I left that decision to them.

Baptism is an outward, visible picture of an inward, invisible event. When I was a pastor I baptized by immersion because I believe it’s the clearest picture of what happens in our heart and life. Paul talks about this in Romans 6. When we’re lowered into the water it’s symbolic of being lowered into a watery grave, paralleling Jesus’ dying and being placed in a tomb. Then, like Jesus, we rise to new life in Him, declaring that sin and the grave have lost their hold on us, thus, freeing us to walk in newness of life in Christ.

There are always issues of maturity, home environment, and others, but my rule of thumb is that most children reach the “age of accountability” by around age 12.

I hope this is helpful.

Blessings, Ed 😊

What Do You Expect?

“Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered Himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God.” (Ephesians 5:2 NLT)

As a pastor I was privileged to sit with people in the best times of their lives and their worst times. A parent’s worst nightmare is the loss of a child, but for a parent who loves and is following Jesus, a child who isn’t following Jesus is a close second.

People who don’t know Jesus likely wouldn’t understand the pain of having a child who isn’t prepared to die. What do I mean by that? As I understand the Bible, God’s eternal written Word, a person who dies without an intimate and personal love relationship with Jesus will be separated from God, and, thus, from believing parents, loved ones and friends, for all eternity.

A believing parent who loses a believing child has the hope and expectation of a joyful reunion when they leave this earth to be united with Jesus and their child who preceded them in death. The pain of loss is still very real and takes time to work through, but ultimately, there is comfort in knowing you won’t be separated forever.

On the other hand, an unbeliever who loses a loved one or friend, has no hope of ever seeing their lost loved one again. So, on some levels, their pain is intensified. Although there are some clergypersons, friends and loved ones who will seek to comfort grieving persons by assuring them: “Your loved one is in a better place.” The truth is, if the person who died didn’t know Jesus, assuring them their loved one is in a better place is just a lie.

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People, even lost people, who understand that, will often raise questions about the circumstances of their loved one’s death. I’ve heard things like “Why didn’t God do something?” “If your God is so powerful, why didn’t He heal my loved one/friend?” “If God is so loving, where is He now, when I need Him?” And on and on the questions go.

While I’ve never asked a grieving person this question, I’ve sometimes wanted to ask: “What do you expect Him to do?” Yes, of course, you wanted Him to step in and stop the crisis that resulted in the death of the one for whom you grieve, but what about the inevitable “next time” they die. What then?

What’s my point? Simply this – God HAS done something! The most loving Parent – our Heavenly Father – gave His ONLY SON so that whosoever will may come to the Cross and find forgiveness and new life. Why is that so vital to understand?

Because God’s tremendous, unequalled sacrifice, was given for the express purpose of giving us an alternative to being forever lost and being forever separated from those we love the most. That’s why it’s so critical that, as children of God, we must live well and pray well and share well with those whom we love the most, about the love of the One who sacrificed everything, to give us hope of eternal life.

Let me close with this thought. An unbelieving couple who loses their small child, even a stillborn or aborted child, has an investment in heaven that can and should, give them an incentive to come to the Lord. Life begins at conception, so for that life to be cut short in the womb or before the age of accountability, that child will be in heaven. Of course, the age of accountability is another conversation that we’ll look at more closely tomorrow.

Blessings, Ed 😊

Learning to Trust God

“And the disciples were astonished at His words. But Jesus answereth again, and saith unto them, ‘Children, how hard is it for them that trust in riches to enter into the kingdom of God!’” (Mark 10:24 KJV)

Trust can be a very fickle companion. Why? Because it’s dependent upon the validity of at least two components – the trust-er and the trust-ee. What does that mean? It means I can trust in an idol made of wood, believing my devotion to that idol will bring good karma into my life. Or I can trust my intellect and conclude there is no God. I can trust that one brand of peanut butter is better than another. And on and on it goes.

Life is filled with decisions we make every day involving trust, yet of all the ways we exercise trust, the only one that will determine where we’ll spend eternity is our trust, or lack thereof, in Jesus. Trust and belief go hand in hand.

In Mark 9 we read Mark’s account of the time Jesus’ appearance was transformed. This is often referred to as His “transfiguration.” Peter, James, and John witnessed this miraculous occurrence, but as they came down from the mountain Jesus was met by a father whose demon-possessed son wasn’t healed by the other disciples. So, he said to Jesus: “Have mercy on us and help us, if You can.”

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That’s where a lot of people find themselves in their consideration of Jesus. We place our trust in the pursuit of riches, but even if we find wealth, it never satisfies. We place our trust in relationships, believing if we find that special person, we’ll be satisfied. Or we place our trust in our own ability to find satisfaction in work, athletics, video games, or whatever, yet none offer the forgiveness, peace, contentment, and ultimate satisfaction we seek.

Then we “try” Jesus. And our attitude is: “We’ve tried everything else, maybe You can help!” And, if we’ll listen, we’ll hear Jesus say to us what He said to this bewildered father: “What do you mean, ‘If I can?’ …Anything is possible if a person believes.”

In this context the word Jesus used that’s translated “believe” means “to place one’s trust in (Jesus).” Trust is a critical element if we’re going to be a Jesus follower, that begins with “saving faith,” but is tested every day as we bring our needs to Him.

David Jeremiah wrote in a recent Turning Point devotion: “When we trust God for daily provisions, it teaches us to depend on Him and His faithfulness to us. He knows how to give us daily bread, daily strength, daily encouragement, daily opportunities, and daily fellowship with Himself and others.” 

Think of a small child learning to walk. I realize you may be an exception, but most of us struggled to pull ourselves up, learn to balance, then risk taking that first step. What happened then? We fell, got back up and tried again and again and again.

Learning to trust God is a process that, like learning to walk, involves trying and failing. Perhaps that’s one of the reasons the Lord’s prayer includes asking for daily provision. Realizing how faithful God is to provide our needs (not always our wants), builds His credibility in our hearts and minds and enables us, over time, to trust Him with our whole lives.

Having walked with the Lord for nearly 60 years, I have no reservation in my trust of Him. The issue with which I have wrestled the most in my life isn’t if I can trust God, but if He can trust me.

Blessings, Ed 😊