“Indeed, we all make many mistakes. For if we could control our tongues, we would be perfect and could also control ourselves in every other way. We can make a large horse go wherever we want by means of a small bit in its mouth. And a small rudder makes a huge ship turn wherever the pilot chooses to go, even though the winds are strong. In the same way, the tongue is a small thing that makes grand speeches.” (James 3:2-5a NTL)
After more than sixty years walking with the Lord, the greatest battle I have is my tongue. I’m struggling to learn to be quiet when the Lord makes it clear I shouldn’t speak. It’s not that I use profanity or degrade someone, but I cut people off or try to interject humor that may be inappropriate for the situation or not clearly understood. My age and mental condition may contribute to it, but in my heart it’s inexcusable because, in my mind, it dishonors the Lord.
That’s why in a group setting I’m often quiet and purposely choose not to speak. Often, it’s because my memory sometimes fails and I forget words or Scriptures that I’d hoped to use, but the other piece of it is I see how so many speak without having anything of substance to say. They just like to hear themselves talk and it seems one random comment leads to many more.

But here’s the point, every time Jesus spoke, He had something of vital importance to say. His words were meaningful, pertinent, and purposeful. I believe that’s why people listened, hanging on His every word, stunned by the simplicity, yet the profound nature of His words. Would to God that our words, as His children, would catch the attention of those who need to know Him.
The Lord has recently prompted me to be more vocal in settings where it would be very easy for me to stay quiet. I enjoy quietness and I’m typically not very quick to engage a stranger or speak into a situation where I see something that I could just as easily pass by. But the Lord has made it clear that He is in it and I should take the time and make the effort to engage someone if He prompts me.
While on vacation in Tennessee, my wife and I were walking down the sidewalk in a little shopping area, and I noticed a man with a sign sitting on a bench. It’s common where I live so I often don’t pay very much attention, but this time the Lord told me to speak with him. His name was Kevin and he was a Veteran who had several physical issues that were hindering him from full time work.
He had a job but couldn’t work enough hours to enable him to pay his room rent, so he was asking for help. Having pastored in a low-income area in Florida, I’ve heard a lot of stories, many lies and attempts to get in my pocket, but Kevin seemed genuine, and I believe He sincerely loved the Lord and needed help.
We stopped and I sat beside him and put my hand on his shoulder. I asked if it would be okay if I prayed for him, and he said “yes.” So, I prayed, committed him into the Lord’s care and gave him some money. It was one of those moments when the Lord showed up and I sensed it had been a sacred moment. The glory of God shines in the darkness when the Holy Spirit speaks in the quietness.
Perhaps, like me, you struggle with knowing when to be quiet and when to speak. The words of Job from Job 6:24 come to mind when he said to the Lord: “Teach me, and I will keep quiet.” But I would add to that: “Lord, teach me, and I will speak.” May the Lord govern our tongue and guide our hearts and minds so that in everything we do, say, or think we will glorify and honor Him.
Food for thought.
Blessings, Ed 😊








