“All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ. Even before He made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in His eyes. God decided in advance to adopt us into His own family by bringing us to Himself through Jesus Christ. This is what He wanted to do, and it gave Him great pleasure.” (Ephesians 1:3-5 NLT)
Another misleading piece of the “inoculation” process is believing it’s all and only up to us. We’re “in” because we’ve been baptized, we attend a gathering, we give money, we serve, we’re a good person or any version of that, but they’re all wrong.
We’re only “in” God’s family through adoption and that adoption only comes through our union with Christ Jesus. It’s not enough to say a prayer, it’s only enough when we give our life in total commitment to the Lord Jesus Christ. What does that mean? It essentially means no longer living for ourselves, but for Him. What might that look like?

It looks a lot like what the disciples in the Gospels did – we follow Him! But how? By daily making Him our priority. Peter reminded the Lord of their sacrifice in Mark 10:28 when he said to Jesus: “We’ve given up everything to follow you.” And Jesus responded: “Yes, and I assure you that everyone who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or property, for My sake and for the Good News, will receive now in return a hundred times as many houses, brothers, sisters, mothers, children, and property – along with persecution. And in the world to come that person will have eternal life.”
Just to be clear, Jesus is not asking us to forsake our parents, family members, or to forsake our spouse and children, He’s saying they must take a lower priority in our thinking and living. Ideally, my sense is, He’s calling us to choose Him over spouses and children in the first place – to never marry. That’s what Paul advocates for in some of his writings, to remain single and essentially be “married” to Christ and His Church.
What’s my point? “Marriage” to Jesus is full, undivided commitment. He’s to be first in priority, first in obedience, first in preference, first in thought, first in sacrifice. But what if I come to Him later in life and I’m already married or have kids, a job, and a thousand other things pulling on me? He’s still our first priority in preparing our heart and mind to face each new day.
Every morning, I ask Him to enable me to love my wife and children, even though they’re grown, as He would if He were their husband and father. He’s not asking us to abandon them, but love them like He would. Ironically, that’s how a lot of Pastors lose their way. They think the church is their “bride,” not Jesus, and they sacrifice their marriage to serve the church. I learned the hard way that’s never what He desires.
That’s one of the reasons ministry is so hard, balancing what is the Lord’s time, family time, and my time. Here’s the truth – it’s ALL the Lord’s time, but the closer we walk with Him, the more discerning He enables us to be, helping us choose well when and how to invest our time most wisely. That’s basically what transformation looks like – balancing our lives to exalt Him in and through every avenue of our life.
Food for thought.
Blessings, Ed 😊








